What is Masturbation?
Merriam-Webster defines masturbation as the erotic stimulation of one's own genitals that commonly (but not always) results in an orgasm acheived without sexual intercourse. Methods can include instrumental manipulation, sexual fantasies, and other types and combinations of stimulation outside the realm of sexual intercourse.
Many people think touching themselves in a way that sexually stimulates them is not considered masturbation as long as there is no orgasm, but according to the official definition of masturbation, orgasm does not need to be achieved to be considered masturbation. This means that all those people who claim they've never masturbated have either 1) never touched themselves in any way that could be considered sexually stimulating (which I find extremely hard to believe) or 2)or are making that statement under the misguided belief that because they have never orgasmed from touching themselves in a sexually stimulating way, they've never truly masturbated.
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Do you Masturbate?
The fact that you are here reading this essay means that you masturbate, or at the very least, that you've touched yourself in a way that was sexually stimulating and are curious as to whether it was considered masturbation. Many people are ashamed to admit they masturbate because they fear it is wrong, either because of their religious beliefs or because they believe if it feels that good, it must be wrong. While it is true, masturbation can become an addiction, exploring one's body and its responses to various stimulii is part of becoming self-aware; of attuning mind with body.
How Often do you Masturbate?
So, you've admitted that based on the definition above, there is no doubt about it, you masturbate. The next question is: how often do you masturbate? Before you answer that, I'll bet you're thinking "I wonder what is considered 'often'?" Obviously, that is a subjective question, but if you have to ask, my guess is that you masturbate quite a bit.
Maybe you are even worried that you are addicted to masturbation; that you cannot stop thinking about masturbating, even when you aren't actually doing it. If that is the case, perhaps you should look into having one of our phone sex Mistresses put you on a Cock Control program. After chatting with you about your situation, she will put together a personalized cock control program just for you. Depending on the situation, she may use various cock control methods ranging from mild to what some would consider extreme cock control.
How can I start a Cock Control program if I'm in a relationship?
We Cock Control Mistresses hear that question a lot, and there is no one answer that works for everybody, however; almost always there is an answer that will work for you. It is common to think calling a phone sex mistress when you are in a relationship is considered cheating. It all depends on the situation; sometimes it is considered cheating, other times it actually enhances your sexual relationship with your significant other. The bottom line is that only you and your significant other can decide what is right for your relationship, but if you are so addicted to masturbation that you are masturbating instead of having sex with her, then she will likely be happy that you are taking steps to change the situation.
We hear it all the time. "I do masturbate a lot and I'd rather masturbate than have sex because I know exactly what I need and how to get there in record time. It's efficient and I don't have to worry about all the hassle and time involved with having intercourse, but I'm certainly not a masturbation addict!" That is like a heroin addict saying "Heroin is the first thing I think about in the morning and the last thing I think about at night. I spend my days trying to score my next dose, but I'm not an addict. I can certainly stop anytime I want!" I think we would all agree that the person who made that statement is a heroin addict and needs help; yet, the masturbation statement is just as telling.
Now that you know the "official" definition of masturbation, step back and consider how often you masturbate. Perhaps you are in need of guided masturbation and/or cock control, after all.